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whiteypetals
08-21-2009, 03:26 AM
I'm pretty surprised, honestly, that there's a Web site devoted to people just like me. Here I thought I was the only person in the entire world who's experiencing problems with driving. I have yet to read through all the posts that are up but I have a feeling I'm going to find some relief on this Web site. I really hope to find some information on my issue: major anxiety that quickly turns to road rage. Then, the road rage gets mixed up with paranoia. Long drives cause a great deal of anticipatory anxiety. If someone is with me in the car, I'm totally fine. Driving becomes a non-issue. If the ride is short or long, I end up always running into a confrontation with another driver no matter how courteous and non-aggressive I am. Someone's always tailgating, about to tailgate, or otherwise challenging me. I always get targeted no matter how hard I try to stay to myself. As I type my feelings, I wonder how many people will say that I'm imagining all of this. I have run into problems w/police on the road, too. I'm talking ridiculous things. Only in Florida does a person get 4 tickets in one year after moving down from up north and having a ticket-free, 25-year driving record. Still, I feel targeted by the police (never for speeding....really, just stupid stuff). Luckily, I've met up with soooooooooo many people who say that they've never had a ticket 'til they moved to Florida. If anyone can understand all I've written above, please contact me.

Rich-Admin
08-24-2009, 09:38 PM
Welcome!
Untreated anxiety can often manifest in anger, which may be the rot of what you're experiencing.
Although last time I was in FL for vacation I got a ticket myself :)

Rich

whiteypetals
08-25-2009, 03:13 AM
Wow...just a simple statement ("untreated anxiety") really made me think. I never thought of my anxiety as being untreated. Yeah, I'm serious. Wow. Thank you for opening my eyes up. Really appreciate it. Also appreciate you describing how anxiety can manifest into anger/aggression.