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aglow
11-14-2008, 12:45 AM
Hi, Rich
I would love to buy your program, but I am afraid my case is not for psychotherapy. I was born with severe nearsightedness, and now, in my late 40s, have slight far-sightedness along with astigmatism and multiple inoperable cataracts. When I was a child, in Moscow, Russia, I was told to never think about driving (or going to college, or delivering a baby - since it could cause retina detachment etc. - no kidding!). I became an American at the age of 20, and to my amazement, have learned and have been driving all this time - almost 30 yrs - legally. My MD assures me that since my vision is enough for a legal license, I should be OK. However, I am terrified of driving in the dark, in snow or heavy rain, and especially, down any incline, even a tiny one. It is hard to see street signs, so I drive slowly, to be able to get close enough to the sign to read it. Unfortunately, I have to drive for work and to get my youngest son to/from his activities. (BTW< I have delivered 3 babies, who are now 21, 18 and 15! And went to college, and even have a Master's degree, despite doctors). So, would your program, dealing with anxiety, i.e. primarily a psychological issue, be useful for someone, who is truly handicapped with low-vision, like I am? How I wish I did not HAVE to drive, given my handicap! Sorry for such a lengthy letter. Thank you very much!

Rich Presta
11-14-2008, 01:31 PM
Well, no, the program won't improve your vision.

but...

out of one side of your mouth you're saying that your vision is a handicap which prevents you from driving normally or safely, but then from the other you're saying you can drive legally and do all sorts of other things that require adequate vision...

so it's either one or the other. Either your vision is bad enough that you shouldn't be driving (which if you're legally able to probably isn't the case), if that's the problem, don't drive.

or

your vision isn't that bad, you can drive legally, your doc gives you the ok to drive, but you're still bothered by ANXIETY about driving anyway. If this is the case, your problem is anxiety, not vision. That's where the program helps.

So it depends on the real issue. Make sense?

Rich

aglow
11-14-2008, 07:27 PM
:ugeek: Thank you, Rich!

That's what an unbiased opinion is. I guess, I needed a kick in the pants. Here we go.... zoom-zoom!

Rich Presta
11-14-2008, 11:49 PM
hehe..zoom zoom :)